To Heal With LOVE

I believe that everything in life happens for a reason and we only need to recognize the perfection around us. People are not their behaviours and pure love is unconditional and never judgmental.
When we believe other people has hurt us, the only thing we can ever do is to forgive and love. When we forgive them, we don’t need to express our forgiveness, because often we have felt hurt for something that was not meant to hurt us. Many times our need to forgive is often to forgive them for something that we perceived was done to us. It is not necessarily that they wronged us, meant to wrong us or even believe they hurt us.
Forgiveness allows us to forgive for our perception as well as for how we reacted to our perception. Forgiveness allows us to recognize that people don’t necessarily mean to hurt each other but that we can rectify any situation by offering love, compassion, forgiveness and truly feeling remorse at any pain, or perceived pain we have caused.
When we say sorry from our hearts and soul, others feel our love and it does indeed help our own healing, our own growth and ultimately helps us find peace. When we forgive ourselves and when we apologize to others, we are expressing our love: Our love of self, of each other and of God.
Love is what matters in the world. This is my belief. I don’t believe in conditions or demands and I believe that what we put out comes back around to us.

They say...
Rules in love and life. Five Rules to be happy:

1) Free your heart from hatred,

2) Free your mind from worry,

3) Live simply,

4) Expect less and,

5) Give more

And they also say...
It takes 3 seconds to say “I love you”,

3 minutes to explain it,

3 hours to demonstrate it,

3 days to appreciate it,

3 trimester to produce it,

but a LIFETIME to prove it.

Well...The real test of true love is having all the things go wrong but still having a special way to love despite of all the wrong things that may happen.

Always take a CHANCE. The end result may not always be what you hoped for but that’s fine. At least, you will never go through life wondering “What if… and “If only….”

Hold a friend’s hand through times of trial, let him/her find love through a hug and a smile. But also know when it is time to let go, for each and everyone of us must learn to grow.

Love is not a word to say when we feel guilty nor the right word to say when we like a person. But LOVE really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds and our hearts.

Never whisper words of love if the feeling is not true. Never share your feeling if you mean to break a heart. Never look into my eyes if all you have to do is lie.

Genuine friendship is not measured by time but it is measured by acceptance. A friend is one where even though you reflect the silver, he/she sees the GOLD.